I Would Much Rather Be Single Than Unhappily Married
Why Can’T There Be A Compromise?... Relationships:Why does it always have to be such a power struggle? Why can’t there be a compromise?
Men make compromises but so do Women and it’s easy to get caught up in those sacrifices , taking them for granted and thinking “That’s the way it should be, he or she should sacrifice for me.” Therein lies the problem. The compromises need to be somehow equal. Love means going out of your way to accommodate each other;
reassuring each other that the sacrifices are greatly appreciated.
Women are taught to go out of their way to accommodate Men and believe it or not Men are taught the same., but unfortunately at some point it becomes a contest and point of argument. “look all the things I’ve done for you, yet you have done so little for me.”
It shouldn’t be a contest. It’s not about keeping score or getting even. Men and Women need to remind each other of that.
Getting back to the idea of relationships as a never ending power struggle: some men force a woman to compete with them in the power struggle even expect it, and if the woman refuses, fails to compete, or over exceeds, than he lashes out. It’s borderline insanity.
I just wish more people understood and reflected these sentiments
Men make compromises but so do Women and it’s easy to get caught up in those sacrifices , taking them for granted and thinking “That’s the way it should be, he or she should sacrifice for me.” Therein lies the problem. The compromises need to be somehow equal. Love means going out of your way to accommodate each other;
reassuring each other that the sacrifices are greatly appreciated.
Women are taught to go out of their way to accommodate Men and believe it or not Men are taught the same., but unfortunately at some point it becomes a contest and point of argument. “look all the things I’ve done for you, yet you have done so little for me.”
It shouldn’t be a contest. It’s not about keeping score or getting even. Men and Women need to remind each other of that.
Getting back to the idea of relationships as a never ending power struggle: some men force a woman to compete with them in the power struggle even expect it, and if the woman refuses, fails to compete, or over exceeds, than he lashes out. It’s borderline insanity.
I just wish more people understood and reflected these sentiments
36-40, M
