I Am Single

I am single...have been for four years now and I'm feeling ready for new beginnings but just need the right guy. Met a guy recently I like but the idea of asking him out is scary lol. It's like being a bull rider then taking a break and not feeling ready to hop on that bull again. What if you get knocked off quickly?! What if the bull takes things too fast? What if he doesn't even let you on at all! Then there's me- the over-thinker. The anticipator. The hopeless romantic....oh how I long to be romantic with someone again. Lord knows it's been too long. #singlelife #lonely #godsendmeaman

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OzDiver · 61-69, M

Be brave. You just need to be brave for the time it takes to ask him.
And if you can face the 'worst' that can happen, him saying 'No' then you can face anything.
If it's not him, then there WILL be someone out there for you, because now you are looking. Now you're ready for romance again. Good luck!

RedHotCrazyPerson · 31-35, F

@OzDiver: thank you for the encouragement...I'm working on the bravery lol

OzDiver · 61-69, M

@RedHotCrazyPerson: Good on you :) You can do it!

saintsong · 41-45, F

Don't be too broken hearted if he says no, but I hope you get your man! Just be yourself....Inner beauty comes from a calm and gentle spirit, be gentle with him. Speak tenderly.

RedHotCrazyPerson · 31-35, F

@saintchantal: thanks for cheering me on!

diablesse · 56-60, F

Take your time, study him, get to know him and make sure you like him, the real him not the image he presents to the world.

RedHotCrazyPerson · 31-35, F

@diablesse: I love your wisdom!

SW-User

Getting shot down is normal. I have been shot down a lot , I some how end up asking out girls who are already engaged. 😅

For you , Sometimes we just have to take the chance. so that we can move forward.

RedHotCrazyPerson · 31-35, F

@HopelessRomantick: that is one way to look at it, take the step to move forward. I know he's single so I'm just trying to get to know him at this point...

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