Romantic
Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE »
Top | New | Old
katydidnt · 61-69, F
Mike, "anyone ready to make friends that can lead to commitment?" I am not that woman but how's a person to sense the commitment part in advance? My advice to you is to participate in forums that pertain to your interests--books, hobbies, travel, and the like. That will help a lady check some boxes before she speaks up. Forums (whether on SW, reddit, flickr or wherever) attract those whose interests overlap yours. The odds are better than just fishing in this undefined pond.
MIKEMINIHAN235 · 51-55, M
@katydidnt thank you for your great advice, I would heed unto it and try to join some forums here and hopefully would get along, I would also appreciate to be friends with you
katydidnt · 61-69, F
@MIKEMINIHAN235 Friends, but just here on the forums. Per my profile, I don't use the Friends (or Follow) designation since I don't do private DMs, sorry. There's just not time left for it.

MIKEMINIHAN235 · 51-55, M
great perspective over there but then it gets lonely being alone sometimes
and some great company could be appreciated
@MIKEMINIHAN235 who are you talking to you?
@MIKEMINIHAN235 that's what family and friends are for. you don't need a gf or wife
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Many of us are not here to date. Have you tried a dating service?
MIKEMINIHAN235 · 51-55, M
@Justmeraeagain hello dear, indeed many are not here to date, in the past, I have tried some dating services but they are not reliable and I would appreciate something that starts from a great friendship, it is the basis of any good relationship, could we be friends?
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@MIKEMINIHAN235 I am not interested in getting dates my husband just died a year ago.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
I've been single for 8 yrs and I'm 57. I chose to leave my second ex and have been unable to feel I can place my faith and trust in a woman with a romantic intimate sexual connection again after negative experiences with my second ex.

You need to learn to be comfortable by yourself and 'in your own skin' so-to-speak. You don't need to seek a relationship to have a happy, positive, rewarding, fulfilling life.

If an opportunity comes and you feel confident to explore then by all means go for it.
MIKEMINIHAN235 · 51-55, M
@zonavar68 thanks for your insight, i am open to making friends, and bearing in mind all that you said, one needs to learn to be comfortable by himself
dale74 · M
Well you deserver a 4-8 but they all think they are 10s and the 0-4 Think your not worthy of their time because they think they are 9s and 10s and then they think the average guy makes 200k plus.... the good women got married had kids and are happy with their husband and kids.
MIKEMINIHAN235 · 51-55, M
@dale74 seems so mate, how the ca this narrative be corrected?
HumanEarth · F
Its not you - its today's environment

I've married to same person nearly 3 decades and the world has changed a lot.
MIKEMINIHAN235 · 51-55, M
@HumanEarth even though you are married, hope you do not mind being friends
HumanEarth · F
Have to know you first. I only add friends

I don't follow people easy
MIKEMINIHAN235 · 51-55, M
@HumanEarth yeah i agree with that. i am open
be happy that you're. you don't need a relationship to be happy. its sad society has brainwashed people like you to think that
MIKEMINIHAN235 · 51-55, M
@vbxcfg great mindset there.

 
Post Comment