I told a girl i met on a dating app that I suspect has BPD that my first sexual experience was forced, after naturally her asking

Instead of offering the slightest bit of sympathy, she told me how that "wasn't as bad" as how she had sex and the guy came before she could get wet. A guy who was allegedly good enough for her to meet but didnt treat her right. Of course, BPD. Zero empathy, just straight to triangulation.

I'm a mental health practitioner, and even these BPD people sicken me, I can't fathom how they can just do what they do and act like they aren't the problem.