I Am Single

I am 27 and single. I'm not going to lie but I love being single. I can come and go as I please. Not worrying about relationship problems, but eventually I probably will in the future. I've dated before a couple of years ago and it didn't work out. My friends tried to hook me up or introduce me to men. I appreciated it, but I'm just not interested in dating again right now. I will in my own time and when I'm ready. I just want to focus on college and getting a stable job in all, but I love to have fun. To be very honest, I am not mature enough to be in a committed relationship/marriage, but that doesn't mean I want to end up alone for the rest of my life. One day I will feel ready to date again and I'm doing it on my own time. Is that bad?

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Bohemianbrassstrings · F

thank god someone understands you dont HAVE to have a man.
hey im 27 also. :)

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That's right. Oh cool. Small world 🙂

Bohemianbrassstrings · F

@MyCreativeThoughts: as the website suggests lol.
but i never understood people that HAVE to have a man. or think its weird when people are single smh.

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@iKnitstuff: Some people say time is ticking and it will be too late.

Bohemianbrassstrings · F

@MyCreativeThoughts: wrong. its never too late. shit personally with the selection today... i cant trust anyone

WelcomeToMyWorld · 31-35, F

You both will find good men soon, but lets be honest. Nobody is going to be alone for the rear of their lives. We're all eventually going to find a mate and whatever. Nobody wants to be lonely.

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@iKnitstuff: Same here. It's very hard to trust people these days.

bhatjc · 46-50, M

Both you ladies are right. Some times we have to take are own sweet time.

Bohemianbrassstrings · F

@MyCreativeThoughts: so its so true its disgusting how many grimmy people are out there these days.

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@iKnitstuff: Yeah tell me about it. Some people feel like they NEED a relationship.

Bohemianbrassstrings · F

@MyCreativeThoughts: I think that's weird. Need and want are two different things

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@iKnitstuff: That is so true.

bhatjc · 46-50, M

Beside we don't need a relationship if we want it that way. Besides nothing wrong with Friends with benefits.

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@bhatjc: Yeah. Some people that are desperate or need a relationship....pathetic.

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@MyCreativeThoughts: I agree. Be wild and free. And live your life the way you want to. Nothing wrong with some one nighters anyways

SylviaStarr · F

@bhatjc: you guys are blunt

SylviaStarr · F

@iCrochetstuff: DAMN YOU ARE BLUNT.

SylviaStarr · F

@MyCreativeThoughts: You're blunt as hell too

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@BigDana27: Maybe we are to jade. But always be wild and free