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Mr. Atomic Physicst (Part 2)

I wasn’t planning to post this but today happened.

Since the last time we talked, I haven't been responding to his messages because he wanted to come over or vice versa even though I told him multiple times already that what he’s doing is wrong. The next day, he asked about my Facebook status. He asked why I’m still in a relationship and I explained it to him. I stopped using my Facebook so I never bothered changing my status to single or none at all. He told me that he was going back to London that same week and wanted me to accompany him to the airport. He lied. Again. He told me that he was going to stay here for a month when we first met. I agreed and I had to wake up extra early for his flight.

He texted me when he arrived and I wished him good luck. So we started talking more about personal stuff. He’s still studying and he’s been confused about his career path and feels pressured. We talked about his girlfriend and found out we are similar in an eerie way.

Today, he told me that his paper is getting published.

This is what he said:

“Yeah, good thanks 🙂 Just in the lab again filling magnets with nitrogen. My paper was selected as the editor’s pick too so I’m chuffed about that”

I also asked him about his girlfriend and he told me that they found a house that they were going to move in. I’m happy for them and proceeded to congratulate him. He then asked me if I wanted to be in a relationship with him. I’m speechless.
Elessar · 26-30, M
I know of people like him. Jumping from one relationship to another, continuously trying to find a "better deal".

Glad to read you haven't fallen for that stuff
Menetics · 26-30, F
@Elessar Thank you! I’ve learned my lesson.

How do you avoid people like him without being rude?
Elessar · 26-30, M
@Menetics I don't think there's a nice way, either being brutally honest and calling them out, or ghosting them, or both. 😶
Menetics · 26-30, F
@Elessar I did tell him that his behavior is wrong. Oh well, I think I have to turn into a magician to do the disappearing act. I have no choice. Poof! 🪄✨
I think you could do better lass alot better don't take sloppy seconds with a man who's pecker has seen the most brutal crazy sights possible.....come on lass
Miram · 31-35, F
I would have gave him the middle finger, the north african way.

What are you gaining from this connection and knowing him?
Menetics · 26-30, F
@Miram You’re right but I’m not interested in him since he told me he’s seeing someone. I don’t want to get into any drama. Plus, I don't like sharing my future partner.
@Miram I would ask the local gay part boy to do a favour....or just pay hard currency for Big gay Al party boy to give him a finger in his arse ho....infact I would pay him to give him the finger in his arse hole then while he lures him into a false sense of security give his arse the Fist of fury 😉
Miram · 31-35, F
@TheMostHighGodIsMyStrenth

I am flagging that comment for implied sexual assault. Use your brain. I talked to her in this thread a month ago. It is not an invitation to you posting detailed disgusting response to me.
Feeling his oats because his paper is getting published?

Or he thinks you are a better match and wants to have his next relationship already sorted out before leaving a person with whom he is going to be living in a new-to-them house...?

How does he think that models "good relationship material"? lmao
Menetics · 26-30, F
@SomeMichGuy I believe that he only likes me because I remind him of his girlfriend. I’m only his ‘type’ of girl.

It’s crazy that he would risk all of that for someone he just met.
Northwest · M
@Menetics [quote]It’s crazy that he would risk all of that for someone he just met.
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He's not crazy. This is his modus operandi. In time, he will get married, and he will continue doing the same thing, as long as he's got women willing to entertain his advances.

You may be interested in Physics and Chemistry, but I'm sure you can feed your curiosity/needs somewhere else, with less drama.

If you're connected through some sort of professional relationship, this simply violates all rules.

Bottom line: the situation is entirely under YOUR control.
Menetics · 26-30, F
@Northwest I never thought of it that way. Thank you for enlightening me.
DeeBee · M
You met this guy like 2 weeks ago maximum,you know he is in a relationship with another woman.How many Menetics do you think this guy has or has had?He's a player and a tool and you're foolish for having anything to do with him!
Menetics · 26-30, F
@DeeBee I’m not falling for it. I told him multiple times that what he was doing is wrong. I would always bring up his girlfriend and make him feel guilty for even talking to me. He would feel guilty sometimes and would stop texting me. The only reason I would reply is when he tells me what he’s doing with his research papers.
DeeBee · M
@Menetics I take that back you're not foolish my apologies.You're just being as kind as possible about it all,well done and please don't give into him you'll only be another notch to his belt there are millions of men like him in the world!
Menetics · 26-30, F
@DeeBee I’m aware. It’s never my intention to ruin anyone’s relationship because I've been there myself. I don't want anyone to go through the same pain I did being cheated on. He did tell me he’s weak for giving in.

 
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