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Crab Shack Guy Goes Sailing...

I think most of you by now know who Crab Shack Guy is, right? If not, jump over here first:

https://similarworlds.com/single/4422477-Just-to-keep-you-posted-I-cant-believe-this-is-the





Something occurred to me this morning. I was sitting down on the pier reading on my Kindle. Well, not really reading... more like sitting there with my Kindle while staring out into the Bay.

It's a beautiful day. Sunny blue sky with a few passing clouds. A nice stiff breeze building. Perfect temperatures (high 70's - about 25°C). I was thinking an afternoon sail might be in order.

Right about then I hear the by-now-familiar voice calling out. Yup, it's Crab Shack Guy saying good morning. It occurred to me at that moment that he's been hanging around me since May, knows I live on a boat, and never once asked to see it or go out on it. Odd, right?

And knowing that he's heading off to his last semester of university next week I decide to ask if he wants to join me for a sail.

Guess what?!? He doesn't know how to swim and is deathly afraid of the ocean.

What!?!?!?

Yup. So now I'm intrigued! I insist he join me and tell him he'll be perfectly safe. I told him to head up to the shop and grab a couple sandwiches for lunch and I had everything else we needed.

He steps into the boat and is instantly unsteady on his feet. We are still tied in my slip but the boat feels too unsteady to him. This is going to be fun. I assured him this boat has been from Portland (Maine) to Daytona Beach (Florida) with me at the helm and he has nothing to worry about. He did not look assured.

He asked for a life jacket which I provided and then told him to take a seat. I proceeded to prepare the boat for departure and I needed to move port and starboard, fore and aft, and in doing so I'm basically hopping about. I'm pretty light on my feet and very used to my boat and he was just stunned because to him the boat is rocking back and forth.

Anyway, we got under way and I winched the main up, unfurled the jib and secured the electric sail drive. Again, he's watching all this and it's as if I'm putting on a magic show. He's clearly uncomfortable so I spend a little time explaining things to him and convincing him we are stable and safe.

To his credit, he had a huge fear of the ocean and he came for a sail anyway. He started asking about my ventures up and down the coast and was in total disbelief that such things were possible.

We spent from about 11am to 6pm out on the water and by the time we were heading back in, he had his life jacket off (but not stowed) and was getting some sun.

My friends here know I love taking people out on my boat and I've used her to entertain commanding officers, subordinates, and friends. And now a Crab Shack Guy!

This is likely the last post on him because he's off to university mid next week. I hope you've enjoyed my little summer series here!! 🤣🤣🤣
pdqsailor1 · 61-69, M
It is nice of you to share your time and your boat with others... and to have company on board.. in this case you helped him get over his fear of the water...

Even when others sail with me.. I am sailing the boat by myself which is fine because it is set up for it.. A few weeks ago we found ourselves heading out of the harbour along side a past Commodore of our club and his Wife on their boat and I raised the main in the gap.. I have a rechargeable battery powered Milwalkee right angle drill that has been converted to be an electric winch handle... the chuck was removed and a stainless winch handle fitting threaded on in place and cross drilled and pinned so it can not budge either forward or reverse.. The reason I have this is to allow someone else to easily send me up the mast (aloft) on a boson's chair but as I have it the one task I put it to is to send the main sail up as it does it quickly and steadily with the self tailing winch. Now the Commodore is close to twenty years my senior and he grinds up his sail manually.. At his age it has become and is an effort... Don't think he did not notice my sail rising so elegantly and effortlessly and concluding that I have an electric winch... We spoke about it afterwards.. He said an electric winch is a $5,000 item.. I explained that yes a built in which cost that much but that it did not have to be done this way. A single electric winch costs that much... A store bought electric winch handle is now $2500 and they are selling pretty well.. The Milwalkee 28 volt electric drill I purchased has the same torque specification as the store bought handle at 100 foot pounds of torque but all in it cost $700 which I thought was a lot o money at the time but it turns out this was a bargain and I explained that rather than have ONE electric winch - the handle meant that all my winches are electric if I choose to make it so... (I don't) ... he smiled. I am given great respect by others at the club because I come up with practical solutions to problems that everyone faces - like hauling up sails as we get older. Because these solutions ultimately will allow us to sail into old age if we are granted the privilege of attaining it..

I take my Mother sailing - she is only 93... I have the whaler on a trailer there and I use a tow dolly to pull it out of its parking spot to the crane, lift it off the trailer, swing it over the water and lower it, then down the wall (there are ladder rungs built in) and unhook the straps from the crane, start the boat and move it to the floating dock. Then I go to get my Mother, help her with the life jacket (inflatable).. and help her from the car to the boat where she steps on and onto a step stool to make it easier for her to board.. and she holds on to the rail and sits on the aft bench.. As we get to the island I assist her off the boat and down the dock from where I tie up the whaler to our slip.. and I do not take my hand off the harness as she walks and she is fine as she steps onto our boat. In the cockpit I have constructed a secure step to assist her in moving from the cockpit sole to the height of the seats - for us not a problem but too large a distance to transit for a 93 year old... so she can easily move in and out of the boat and get herself settled in and comfortable... each bunk on our boat has a USB port set inside the storage locker to use to charge a phone and she uses her port to charge both her cell phone and her e-reader.. Each locker has a built in LED light so things can easily be seen with out a flash light... and the flat screen TV happens to be at the foot of her bunk on the bulkhead so she has plenty of stuff to do be it reading or TV or calling her friends (who are residents of retirement homes and who live vicariously though my Mothers adventures while sailing)... plus there are the Chihuahuas to deal with.. She loves to sail, she takes a cushion out into the cockpit for her back against the coamings... She literally is like a kid getting to go out on an adventure every time she gets down to the boat.. and to a great extent I have made sufficient adjustments to the process to accommodate her so she is able to do so.. but I also warn her to take great care holding on at each and every step because a broken hip could put everything she enjoys at instant / permanent jeopardy.. With a bit of planning and understanding of how things work and how to solve problems sailing can and should be a life long pursuit.. She asks at the end of each days sail how many knots we put under the keel that day.. and then it is time to walk the dogs feed them and then make dinner on board.. Like a big kid she is enjoying her second childhood..

No one knows what tomorrow will bring but SHE has a reason to want to be around to find out.. which is one of the reasons she is still here.. she wants to... while too many of her friends have given up or not had family to include them..

When on Sunday evening it is time to head back the drill is pretty much the same in reverse. until she is back home again... figuring on going back sailing the following weekend...

Along the way I do see the slow deterioration.. her eyesight is slowly failing, her skin is thinning.. but she is healthy and physically far more able than most people her age.. No one has a contract with G-d but he does appear to help those who help themselves and I am rather impressed with how she is enjoying herself... with just a wee bit of assistance here and there...
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@pdqsailor1 👍👍👍

🙏
Yulianna · 26-30, F
🤗🤗🤗 awww! take him home to meet mama! he is ideal fo you!
Yulianna · 26-30, F
@sarabee1995 😯 OMG! you really dislike this guy, sending him to spend his final hours in warzone, with mad lesbian!

what's he done to you, to deserve that?
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@Yulianna Hahaha... He will bring secret weapon with him. Fresh from R&D. To be tested on orcs only. 😉
Yulianna · 26-30, F
@sarabee1995 😂😂😂 orc... ordinary russian citizen?
ShadowSister · 46-50, F
I like a story with a happy ending. Sounds like you stretched him out of his comfort zone in a lot of really positive ways this summer. And he definitely stretched your character. I'm glad you did that with him.

Now you just need to get him to join SW as CrabShackGuy so we can all meet him. 😉
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
🤷‍♀️
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@room101 Not to worry though... I'm sure the adventures of Sara universe will come up with a sequel in the world of singledom. 👍
room101 · 51-55, M
@sarabee1995 Or maybe the next ASU will be the A+S chronicles🤔
ineedadrink · 51-55, M
Sounds like proof positive that you want to date him. 😁
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@ineedadrink Oh! Younger. Okay. I keep forgetting that my parents are young because they had us young.

My dad is 47. So I figured your daughter would be my age at least.
ineedadrink · 51-55, M
@sarabee1995 Yeah, the poor girl is saddled with old folk as the parental units. But that means I can spoil her. 😁 She longs to go military once she finishes college. The old, and maybe a little wise, dad got it into her head that she has to have her parchment in her left hand before she raises her right
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@ineedadrink That's VERY good advice for her. I'm a huge fan of military careers (obviously... it's the path I chose), but especially for women it is good to come in with the bachelor's degree completed.
KiwiBird · 36-40, F
Confirmation of dating before the end of summer. Thanks for fulfilling my prediction. 🤣🤣🤣

Seriously, that was very kind of you. Hopefully he won't be as scared of the ocean in the future.
Just a shame the 'crab shack guy' series has come to an end....it was entertaining and well written. Thank you.
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@KiwiBird Lol, I thought as much. CSG never had a chance to be anything more with me. Even if I was looking this summer, he's just not my type. 🤷‍♀️
KiwiBird · 36-40, F
@sarabee1995 IKR I just love fishing when they bite. 😁
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@KiwiBird 🤭
room101 · 51-55, M
I'm a little impressed that, with his stated fear of the ocean and an inability to swim (how is that even possible in this day and age.......nevermind, rhetorical) he agreed to go sailing at all. I'm also a little impressed that he didn't puke his guts out. He didn't barf, right?
🤣🤣🤣
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@room101 Nope. No puke. As for him coming along in the first place, I was quite insistent. Perceived deficiencies in his man card may have been implied.
room101 · 51-55, M
@sarabee1995 I wonder how implied and/or perceived those deficiencies were🤣🤣🤣
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@room101 🤷‍♀️
You’ve turned him into a sailor😀
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@TheSirfurryanimalWales Lol, not quite!
Valerian · 100+, M
Thank you for all your wonderful
"True Summer Adventures of SBG" featuring CSG
They have been a delight.
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@Valerian Lol, thanks for the auto-correct fix. Edited. 🙂
Valerian · 100+, M
@sarabee1995 Nooooo, it was cute that Way 😉
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@Valerian But not correct. 😐
Scribbles · 36-40, F
Way to push him a little bit out of his comfort zone to experience something fun and new! That's a hobby I enjoy too. 🤣
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@Scribbles Absolutely! Once I discovered he'd never been on a sail boat there was no way I wasn't getting him out.

And yeah, we left his comfort zone cowering back on shore.

I will say that he had a huge grin once I got him over his fears.
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
Haha, no doubt you opened his eyes to new things
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
@sarabee1995 and its hard to believe that close to the ocean and he doesn't know how to swim
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@vetguy1991 Well he lives here now, but he didn't grow up here. I should've included that in the post. 🤔
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M

 
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