If i was thin and beautiful maybe then id finally have someone.

@LadyGrace Oh I know that not everyone thinks that way and that a lot of people in society operate that way, but I'm saying just focusing on herself, she shouldn't allow that to define her just because others might. Trust me, I know what's it like to be judged by something that's out of my control. Not weight, but I do have other flaws... people are cruel. But my point is that I made it a habit not to care what people think anymore. It takes time to get to that point and I still have my off days where it'll bother me, but most of the time I'm quite okay. I've had people tell me because of an issue I have had.. well, not tell me, but talk about it with other people that I'd never get a boyfriend... have had 3... I've had people think I'm slow.. I've had people think I'd never be on my own... I've even gotten turned down for certain jobs... but at some point you can't allow that to slow you down. Give yourself a chance if nobody else is going to and see what you start to manifest. While my issue wasn't weight it' still a physical problem I have had since birth and will always have it. Since I can't change it, I have to make the best of it.