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BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP
I tire of burning down my support network.
basically I've realized that part of the disconnect was I Want someone I could talk to about my problems and confide in and was attracted to the very sort of person I felt comfortable opening up to and failed to predict that maybe not everyone felt the same way.
after awhile given the present atmosphere the fact that domestic violence still hasn't petered out there are still plenty of violent brutes the poison is still sloshing around inside the system etc just flat out admitting one was hoping for something more is enough to cause plenty of you to respond in kind by blocking us or simply going out of your way to avoid us if it happens more in person.
Friendships ruined, and say we do go for it and it doesn't work out?
since most of my supports are going to be female too by default it's messy.
sometimes it's better to just opt for friendship even if you're attracted to her because you don't want to roll the dice when you know you could need her some day.
basically I've realized that part of the disconnect was I Want someone I could talk to about my problems and confide in and was attracted to the very sort of person I felt comfortable opening up to and failed to predict that maybe not everyone felt the same way.
after awhile given the present atmosphere the fact that domestic violence still hasn't petered out there are still plenty of violent brutes the poison is still sloshing around inside the system etc just flat out admitting one was hoping for something more is enough to cause plenty of you to respond in kind by blocking us or simply going out of your way to avoid us if it happens more in person.
Friendships ruined, and say we do go for it and it doesn't work out?
since most of my supports are going to be female too by default it's messy.
sometimes it's better to just opt for friendship even if you're attracted to her because you don't want to roll the dice when you know you could need her some day.