Being in love or being comfortable

Correct me if I am wrong, there are two types of relationships: Ones where the 2 people are together because they WANT each there and ones where they are together because they NEED each other.

People stay in relationships because they get comfortable and they are scared to be alone, they end up in these relationships simply because someone showed interest and pursued them, and perhaps a relationship is what is expected of them.

My advice to anyone single or in a mediocre relationships.... WAIT. Wait until you have butteries, wait until you find someone who makes you feel alive, in love and HAPPY. They are out there.

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curiosi · 61-69, F

Good advice, I have waited a long time. I don't mind I would rather be alone then with the wrong person.

Highonheels · 51-55, M

@curiosi amen to that

writingforlife6 · 22-25, F

Exactly!! @curiosi

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

When anyone says there is only two of anything, that's when I know they are wrong. 🤷‍♂️

JS.

Ghostinthemachine · M

What if you one yourself waiting too long?

writingforlife6 · 22-25, F

@Ghostinthemachine Patience is key. Work on yourself and you will find love when your at your best

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

There's also when they love each other but live far away.

REMsleep · 41-45, F

I don't necessarily advise everyone to wait because it greatly depends on where you are in life and what you want out of life and telling everyone to wait is not realistic it is a fairy tale IMO

writingforlife6 · 22-25, F

@REMsleep I personally do not want to encourage people to settle. I want people to live their best life , not settle for less. It may seem like a fairytale, but you'll get that fairytale ending

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@writingforlife6 Thats untrue as proven by many who die alone. Love is not a fairy tale. Its way more complex than butterflies

writingforlife6 · 22-25, F

@REMsleep I am not saying your relationship will be all sunshine and rainbows, but the love you have between 2 people should yes, be a fairytale. Why spend your life with someone who is not well suited? someone who doesn't make all the fights, all the bad times worth it? Every relationship has its ups and downs but DO NOT SETTLE for less because your scared of dying alone...

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