I remember some years ago I was talking to a man here and we were obviously joking around in posts and everything

Then one day a woman messaged me how I'm his new pet but I should be careful because he's fucked with everyone and sent me some pics of him like from when they were videocalling. And she asked me if I'd visit him in his country and told me that our babies will have the cutest noses lmao. I was being sarcastic with my answers and she blocked me so I warned him about her going around with his pics and reported her too.
What a bitter weirdo, you trust someone enough and have a connection with them only to become part of their petty games once it doesn't work out how they want it to.
That's why I'm not going to send nudes to anyone unless I'm okay with potentially being seen by hundreds of strangers.
When you trust someone, you can only trust them under certain circumstances. Everybody could betray you if their situation changes.
Anyway he has left SW a long ago but some times I wonder if she's still here lol.

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helenS · 36-40, F

Some are going too far, in my opinion. SW is a forum; you can communicate with people, listen to their experiences and opinions, tell other what you think; perhaps let off steam occasionally; maybe even getting a bit flirtatious. But serious personal commitments? Deeper feelings towards someone? Not in my book. 😑

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@helenS I've made a couple good friends on here in my time. Oddly, some of that is the virtue of anonymity on another level. Participated in some discreet fun; never once came to haunt or taunt me. I'd still be wary of sending a nude or intimate details. Have made a deep friend with someone, too. Sometimes it's about what you are willing to share, with whom, your intuition and how you trust them. I expect maturity matters, and inhibitions.