So I was fingering a stripper in short skirt [I Have Worn A Very Short Skirt]

Well since I have pawed about 100 strippers at gay night clubs in my life and even been bought 100s of drinks and shots by them, I beg to differ. @Mrsbetweenfatandfit

@southbeachguy that’s definitely very surprising to me. My husband was the bouncer for several different strip clubs over the years. Lovely ladies but just like a woman getting off from the post office, teaching or any other job they were all looking forward to some relaxation after work rather than more work but again for no money.

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit Haha yes but they are also horny attention whores especially while drinking.

👍@Mrsbetweenfatandfit not to mention the hygiene factor 🤢

Oh and to be honest they go to gay clubs then get pouty that men are not fawning over them. Some straight girls are the same way.

I had a 40 year old nurse married 18 years with 3 kids buy me a drink just for complimenting her dress Saturday night.

@southbeachguy I’m curious if many of these ladies are not actual strippers but enjoy the attention they get being a mans fantasy. Much like men lie about being in successful careers when out hitting on ladies. It doesn’t matter though as most of these interactions aren’t likely to lead past an evening encounter

Okay first of all I have been going to nightclub since summer of 1994 use to be 3 or 4 nights a week down to 2 nights a week past 10 years. I have had up to 100 strippers as actual friends and another 100 as casual club acquittances. I can pick out a stripper in a hurry. Hell I live on a topless beach and walk around Miami Beach. For someone who rarely goes to strip clubs, I know stripper behavior like nobody else. As for the evening encounter thing, I do not attempt to have sex with them.I do not recall having sex with a stripper in the past 10 years. I have no close friends that are strippers I am 45 years old now. @Mrsbetweenfatandfit

@southbeachguy it’s your story man I’m just not seeing the likelihood of women who have men’s attention 40+ hours a week desperate for more in their nights off. My opinion doesn’t change your claim

Wow you can disagree, you apparently do not know the mindset of drug addict daddy issue strippers. They do not say I got 40 hours of mens attention this week I do not need more.IF they felt that way they would not be in clubs dressed like strippers in night clubs. Sometimes I have met them dressed in non stripper ways and those ones are not attention whores. @Mrsbetweenfatandfit

@southbeachguy alrighty then 😇

I am not judging all strippers, I have known ones that did not drink, ones that did not do drugs, ones that got along in normal way with parents, ones that really were doing it to pay for college, ones that were genuinely nice people, ones that were smarter than me. Now after I said all that most of them are fucked up human beings who love drugs, alcohol and sex.

I’ve known many as well it just seems our experiences with these women greatly differ. Which is possible just makes it less likely we would understand the others view @southbeachguy

What are your experiences? They are all just after as much money from every guy as they can get 24/7?@Mrsbetweenfatandfit

@southbeachguy hence the curiosity that they never asked you for money... Or was that part left out of the story 😏

Oh in agreement with you I stopped buying strippers drinks, because they pretty much order the most expensive drink or shot give you a kiss on the cheek and disappear. @Mrsbetweenfatandfit

@southbeachguy so a kiss costs an expensive drink but fingering is free.

Hmmmm.... It kinda doesn't make sense.

This is weird.

@southbeachguy nope. that they were working women profiting off their good looks & men’s desire to exchange attention with women like that just another service occupation. I know some struggled with self image or worth others with drugs & alcohol. But the ladies I got to know enjoyed getting off work and putting on sweats eating some junk & not being around more men. We had girls nights out where they were often approached & usually rejected the men’s offers of dances or drinks. Why? Because they were out to enjoy themselves not to feed some desperate need for attention as apparently so many of the poor ladies you’ve encountered did. Just very different women we know I guess

Okay that was the experience I started to seem to have all the time starting about 10 years ago so I stopped buying them drinks. The stripper a few weeks ago was a random occurrence. I run into strippers very infrequently in the places I hangout now. @OogieBoogie

@southbeachguy ahh.
Yes... Random makes sense.

Well you were attracted to the more normal ones. One of my very best friends for awhile was a stripper that loved sweats,Cheetos, and I think it was MINDCRAFT whatever the big game was back then. I am not a gamer. I am talking about the strippers I have met generally in gay night clubs sometimes in straight bars, sometimes in Walmarts, sometimes hanging out on the beach. Very few are not a minimum a single mom, daddy issues, or drug issues though. @Mrsbetweenfatandfit

I think I have been friends with two strippers that did not have a kid, daddy issues, or drug addiction.