I Think Too Much

Right now, I am thinking, people shouldnt teach kids about love, kindness. Specially to little girls, never tell them fairytales and about loving unconditionally and all that crap. They grow up dreamer and get crushed again and again.

Every act of kindness and love, isnt appreciated as much as taken for granted. And then expected more. Even if you give away every ounce of love you have, you would still be told it wasnt enough. I see so many wanna be Belle's, trying to tame a beast, only to be burnt, cut and killed for it.

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Onewithone

I think its ok to tell little girls stories. But as they change into young women, and women, then a parent should speak to their daughter more realistically about how relationships are hard and prepare to have your heart broken perhaps a few times before you find true love

Bbgv14 · 31-35, F

before you find true love, if ever you mean?

Onewithone

Yes. I am divorced, so my ex was not true love. I am 48 and thinking about proposing to my gf of a year if things are still going great in another 4-6 months. Hopefully after dating girls, marriage, dating women, I have found it. Time will tell. You still have a long road ahead. Don't let bad experiences get you so down. Learn from then and keep moving forward

Bbgv14 · 31-35, F

Thats AWESOME! good luck!! I hope you have found it!

I shall remember that, sometimes its harder.

Onewithone

My friend, a woman, told me years ago "you have to kiss a lot of frogs" So keep at it! There are good guys out there!

Bbgv14 · 31-35, F

I like to joke with my friends, all good guys are married or Gay. :)

thank you!!

Onewithone

My joke was all women either hate men because some guy wronged them or they are lesbians!!