How come men don’t pop in and say “nOt AlL mEn” when you say something positive?

Like when I talk about my trauma and experience with men, they say this. I always ask where I said “all men” were abusers and they can never quote me. Why do they need to announce that they’re “not like the other boys” when I talk about the cause of my PTSD or whatever? It doesn’t change my experience 💀