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I Long For Someone to Really Know Me

I don't even mean as some sort of romantic relationship necessarily, I just wish I had the kind of person that understood me and felt the way I do. Someone with the same anxieties, same humor, same determination, same temperament, just someone who would know how I feel without needing to ask. Christ, where IS that person already?!
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XxBuoyantwatersxX26-30, F
I know right 馃槖
TryhardDreamer26-30, M
The biggest hurdle is just the social pressure that keeps us from just going up to people and finding out if they're that person. We don't want to sound weird or intrusive, and as a result we never find what we're looking for.
XxBuoyantwatersxX26-30, F
Well, uh, I'm not sure if I ever tried it. You know, going and finding out the right person. I'm not sure if I even want to try that.
TryhardDreamer26-30, M
Well it isn't like you have to aggressively just dog people and spill everything to them immediately. The best way would probably be to just look around for people that you get the right feeling from, and try to find the least awkward way to start chatting them up. Even if it's another girl, everyone could use a best friend that understands them right?
XxBuoyantwatersxX26-30, F
Uh yeah. Its not easy for everyone though.
TryhardDreamer26-30, M
It really isn't easy for me either. As a matter of fact if I wasn't talking to someone like you on the computer and instead saw you on the street, I almost definitely wouldn't say a word to you purely because I wouldn't have the... guts for it I guess? I mean it is a super stressful situation don't get me wrong, I'm just saying that if you get the courage that's the way to do it 馃槈
XxBuoyantwatersxX26-30, F
I'm a very courageous person you know. I've got nothing to lose.
TryhardDreamer26-30, M
That's the spirit! You know I wish I had half that courage sometimes! Hold up, I'm gonna send you a message, cool?
XxBuoyantwatersxX26-30, F
Uh yeah