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@Elandra77 I had two people ask why there was a woman as my profile picture recently.

@ReneeT i have people doubt me all the time. Some heart replies but never talk as I reply now as a woman and not as a male as I once was.

No legal document of mine reads male anymore. My mother's son is dead. She now has a daughter.

@Elandra77 I hope that your mom is accepting the daughter that you are and not anyone you used to be. Anything I say on SW is me being the woman I feel that I am.

@ReneeT I wish I had her support as a daughter but I don't. She is of a generation far too set in their beliefs to accept me. We don't talk. Share as I have no siblings and she is all I have.

I am glad you relate as you do here. There are those that understand us and those that never will.

@Elandra77 I am sorry to hear your relationship is not good. I would imagine that my mum would be the same way, if she were still here. Plus the fact that I had four sisters and i was the only boy would have really not been a plus

@ReneeT Thank You She can be mean. I grew up in my grandmothers house with two aunts and my Mother. So 4 women. I was NOT welcome there and it was hell. The youngest was 21 years older than me. There was never any fascination with any clothing or garments of anyone. However that may play into this but I think not.


A friend of mine is an American Indian Shaman and she said I was female in my last life(maybe last two) and my greatest joy was being a MOTHER! She believe I am trying to get back to that on some level. I agree. I am very mothering--even with total strangers.

We both believe I had to be born male to fully understand discrimination, double standards, societal expectations, and so on. Now that i DO---I am free to be me---again.

@Elandra77 I so do believe in past lives and I am sure that I was a woman sometime before. Even though the male role feels a little different than it was maybe 100 years ago there is still that double standard around. I am so glad you feel free again. I am happy to have a friend like you here to talk with.