I Am Not Who They Think I Am

Outwards I am a guy but inside I really do feel my feminine side coming out. People can be very cruel sometimes so I keep my feminine side to myself. Growing up with 4 sisters made me appreciate the feminine side that I do have.

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Heartlander · 80-89, M

I think everyone has a masculine and a feminine side. I really don't like those two words because I don't think there is a good comprehensive definition of either masculine or feminine. More like a collection of attributes that makes one lean more masculine or feminine.

Why is it necessary to keep the two sides separate? Why one or the other? Why not just blend both sides so the best of both sides can be at the center?

ReneeT · 61-69, M

@Heartlander I do try to blend the feelings together whenever I can and I don't need to be dressed either way to feel it. When they are both blended together I do feel like I am in tune with my feelings and others on a greater level.