Just change your profile to a revealing pic of you. You'll get all kinds wanting to talk to you.

Hi Minyue! Talking with folks on SW is -- I hope -- very different from being intimate with a close friend. It tells us what others think and what they do in life. It is a natural part of our social life and it often gives me some important things to think about. So if you can, please let your friend know what the difference is between chatting, in public, on an Internet site with lots of fine people and being intimate with a unique and close friend. In my mind, there is a huge difference! Cheers! 🙂

You can be on here all you want. Your friend needs to know they don't own you. Make as many friends as you like, Minyue.