If you follow your date to their place with the intention of sex... [I Am Weird]

It is if the place is like a hoarder mess, but if things aren't in perfect order and spit polish shined, no, not a deal breaker.

As long as I don't see bugs.

Nope.

I don’t think so. Messy girls are somewhat endearing to me.

Messy is okay, filthy is a dealbreaker

Depends. There's a difference between messy and dirty. The former is tolerable, the latter is not.

i'd ask we do a clean up first.

got to pay attention to the red flags

It's called foreplay

Yes it is

Not at all

Nah!!

Leave the light off

Messy is fine. Shit happens. People get overworked, or depressed, and things get left to the wayside. I’ve been the same way before.

When it gets to be total squalor though, I probably won’t be taking off my pants.

Yeah. Most likely they are dirty too.