It's really not what you say;it's better to be told the truth, its a sign of friendship, caring,love, whatever, but it is HOW one says it really. I prefer to be told the truth in the middle of a world full of lies and fakeness. So do tell the truth. I am still learning at my age to say the truth, to be honest. It will ne more beneficial on the long run for what you are searching in life. Sorry abkut my english