It’s So Annoying…

When people pretend that my requests are so hard to accommodate. I just asked someone to do a simple favor because they were going to be in the area. I just wanted them to reset something. But noooooo they refused because apparently it was so hard for them to do it and out of their way. But god forbid if I refused to do something for them, suddenly I’m a jerk. Blow it out your ass. Don’t ever ask me for a favor again then. Because I’m just going to pretend that it’s too hard for me to accommodate no matter how simple or not out of the way it is. I’m so sick and tired of everyone pretending that helping me is such a goddamn chore and a slog to get through or like I’m asking for both of their kidneys. It’s the same thing for when I want to do something that is in the middle of the day. Oh I have to wait and be patient. But when the roles are reversed and they want to do something that starts around midday, if I don’t move exactly when they want me to, they get upset and pretend the world is going to come crashing down. I have to rush everything even though I finish what I’m doing before them. Or like when I need help carrying something because you know… it’s HEAVY, they say, you have two hands, figure it out. But oh if they need help carrying something and I say the same exact thing back to them, they pretend that I went a step too far. This is why I don’t like doing things for other people in general because when I expect that same courtesy in return, they make every excuse not to do it. Then they will give me some spiel about how I shouldn’t expect anything in return. Why? You guys do, all the time and don’t care. I don’t understand why you can’t even live by your own “standards” but expect me to. 🙄