I Am Sure People…

Will disagree with me more than agree. But I am really torn. Me personally I don’t consider messaging other people while married or in a relationship “cheating” on them. It’s very dirty and probably leads to trust issues and emotional problems later on but I think someone actually has to cheat for it to be… cheating. Like I flirt with other ladies while in a relationship with my ladyfriend. Unless I’m actually getting together with and or boinking the other lady, I don’t consider it cheating. 🤷🏽‍♀