I don’t need military or religion to make me a good person

Small point of order. We all need structure and discipline. Its just that many are able to provide it for themselves. Some need to learn it from "the system". and the rest have it imposed on them.😷

I like and appreciate the mundane things most don't

Some of us don't know we are in need of structure and discipline until we demonstrate otherwise and then someone else has to tell us about it.