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You're definitely not ugly.
To my eyes, you look a lot younger than 32, perhaps only 24. Some people are lucky that way; the advantage will be looking more youthful in old age.
But looks are not the issue. There are plenty of ugly men and women who have no difficulty finding sexual partners or committed relationships.
To find a partner one needs to:
1. Be proactive.
Know what kind of woman suits you (similar values, interests, tastes and goals), where women like her are most easy to find, and put yourself into that place often enough to get to know them. One of them will end up being a mutually good choice.
2. Develop relationship skills so that you can [i]be[/i] a desirable partner.
Ideally you will need social and emotional intelligence, empathy, good ethics and good communication skills.
Easy to look these up in places like the free online magazine/blog site Psychology Today. It gives professionally researched advice on just about every life issue. If you are shy or have anxiety issues it can help with those.
To my eyes, you look a lot younger than 32, perhaps only 24. Some people are lucky that way; the advantage will be looking more youthful in old age.
But looks are not the issue. There are plenty of ugly men and women who have no difficulty finding sexual partners or committed relationships.
To find a partner one needs to:
1. Be proactive.
Know what kind of woman suits you (similar values, interests, tastes and goals), where women like her are most easy to find, and put yourself into that place often enough to get to know them. One of them will end up being a mutually good choice.
2. Develop relationship skills so that you can [i]be[/i] a desirable partner.
Ideally you will need social and emotional intelligence, empathy, good ethics and good communication skills.
Easy to look these up in places like the free online magazine/blog site Psychology Today. It gives professionally researched advice on just about every life issue. If you are shy or have anxiety issues it can help with those.