I realize most girls are not pretty, I never been with a girl so to me

@cupidnpsyche well, I used to think that if a man was super handsome/ beautiful, I don't know, gorgeous, perfect looking, he was as perfect inside. But that was when I was young. But seeing too many good looking men I eventually realized that phtsical beauty has nothing to do with inner. Since inner beauty is more important to me, I.started looking for that rather than a perfect body.

@cupidnpsyche my views changed. Gem to me is now someone who is a gem inside, a real man. Is only worth keeping. Physical beauty is like a fake pearl, it only looks like a pearl on the outside but it is still fake. It will fade away with time and never become true pearl and then you are left with, very possibly, a monster for a person. Beautiful people are often arrogant, egocentric, self centered, selfish, " better than" every one else. That's no gem to me.

@cupidnpsyche A person who is beautiful inside, soul personality, has all chances to be beautiful on the outside. Some one gorgeous on the outside but with an ugly soul, has almost next to 0 chances. I've seen too many of those and was always disapointed with physically beautiful people. Most are just assholes.