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I've been wondering if my efforts matter

I've been texting my daughter for days, then months then weeks for a total of 4 YEARS. For most of that time I only get a message from her on Mother's Day, Christmas, sometimes on our birthdays. But I've texted ALOT and since she almost never replies, I wonder if it even matters. So I'm down to sending thoughts to her once a week usually on Fridays. Today I realized that since I was busy packing I hadn't sent her a weekend message yet. Again, I wondered if she was annoyed with my messages or if she at least regarded me kindly in someway. Deep down a voice inside me, you better let her know you're thinking g of her So, it was two days later than usual, but I sent her a message. And GUESS what I got?!? She answered my question , and even said "thank you for wondering, and tell grandma I miss her" I wanted to shout "yeah! She responded !!!" Her response is a very important answer for me!!!! That she answered, how she answered, what she said-- says a lot! (Her parents get copies of every text and voice message she sends and recieves...and I've always wondered how that might affect her communications) Anyhow... I've been waiting years for a reply. And I got a thank you!.
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GoFish ·
were you not a parent to your daughter? i ask because you mention her parents like you are not one of them.. was she given up for adoption?
Mindful · 56-60, F
@GoFish I was very much her mom.. until step mom stepped in...I am her mom but I feel as if I lost her...I did not give her up, but my daughter went from missing me and loving me to hating me and "she decided to live with her step mom and dad" and I got upset about it. So she stopped talking to me. Period. Tonight was the first indication I've gotten that she likes to hear from me.
GoFish ·
@Mindful oh i see. sorry to hear that .. glad you got to hear from her finally

 
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