I've been kind and supportive of people who wouldn't even share a laugh with me on good days...

It never hurt or cost me anything to extend that kindness.

Some people hoard kindness like they'll run out...

And maybe that's the difference between us...

Your well of love is shallow. Your boundaries are weak and ever shifting because you are limited by deep insecurity that you're ashamed to bring into the light.

I'm not ashamed of my feelings. We all have them and whether we share them out loud or not, it doesn't make either of us wrong or right.

So your disgust for me and my feelings is your insecurity, not mine.

And there's more people happy to hide in their ignorance of course, it's easier than living the full range of human emotions.

So I don't feel bad for what I've shared here.

You treated me better when you didn't know it was me you goofy bastards. You joked with me and responded to me because you thought I was someone else 😂 Half of you are nicer to catfish and predators, so what's your real problem?

I feel bad for those of you that have to look down on me for being strong enough to articulate what isn't right.

No more apologies for who I am.

And thank you to the people who don't need to make me feel bad or leave me out because I have a voice with range. You are real deal. Even if we don't talk much, I see you and I care about you and you're in my happy thoughts.

To those that put yourself above me because I'm a whole woman, better luck next life 💋

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BlackRaven · 36-40, M

Speak that voice! You always keep it real

Nightwings · F

I have known you here on different accounts, recognizing you because you stand out (in a positive way) and I've always liked you. I don't really talk much with anyone here because I feel like this place is a bit of a time sink, but I still care about the people whose paths I've crossed for years now, including you of course. A lot of people don't like me either, I've always been that "outcast type" both IRL and online, but I kinda love it. I don't need people to like me, and neither do you, the important thing is that you like yourself. It's fun to be different and in my opinion you've never overshared, because you can share just as much as you want to. It's your choice, you're not here to please others. A profile on the internet shouldn't be an entertainment show unless you're earning money on it, if this profile is for you then it's 100% your choice how you use it. ✌🏻🌻

chernobylplaygr0unds

I don't know who " they " are but I've always thought highly of you and how strong , real , raw and resilient you are .I just hope you see this too . No approval of others needed. Keep being who you are . The ones meant for you will stick around the ones that aren't won't. Whatever you decide to do I wish you all the best.

EldritchFox · 41-45, F

@chernobylplaygr0unds Thank you 🫂 I do see it now. I doubted myself because I felt outted for sharing.

And I did over share. I talked on here like you were all my friends lol It was naive to think what I shared would be relatable and help others not feel alone, that's where I need to focus inward more.

But I can't help who I am and it's okay if not many people like me. It's okay if they don't respond or don't care. I still deserve to exist.

I must remember there are people like you and others here, others I have met along the way in life that accept me. Even look at me like I exist. I must not let that good be drowned by the weight of what others choose to keep inside 🖤

I think you are rad and real deal too lady. Always been grateful for you even with our differences, I'm glad you are out there 🖤

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BillyMack · 46-50, M

Sucks that there are those who hear who make sharing vulnerabilities feel like it’s taboo. When there are so many other sick and twisted things here that get a lot of likes and attention.

Now I’ve likely joked with those when I think they’re catfish or fake (mostly due to their other groups and posts), but I’d like to think I can tell when the vulnerability is real and affects people strongly.

Validation here is empty. I know it might the only validation for some, but for the most part, if I needed true validation, I’d look elsewhere.

Keep doing you.

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