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Too friendly ?

My neighbor has come over to see me every day this week. He’s nice enough and it’s enjoyable to have some adult company, but I’m sure there’s more on his mind than chatting. My kids are 2 and 3 - I wonder if this is something they will remember.
BlueVeins · 22-25
This whole thing where we all act terrified of strangers is a societal disease specific to our time and place. There was a whole era where it was socially normal to ask for a ride from random strangers on the road using hand signs, and it ended in part because of a very small number of highly-publicized crimes. For god's sakes, make a good friend of him; at our age, we're almost certain to run into a deficit of friends. And who knows, he just might save your life one day or vice versa, if there's a disaster and one of you checks on the other... or if one is incapacitated and nobody else notices.

Always good to keep an eye out for sus behavior, but trying to be neighborly shouldn't be considered sus imo.
Nelisme · 22-25, F
@BlueVeins I like the man but he’s not the kids father and I just don’t know how much they will remember. I am unmarried but their father does visit.
BlueVeins · 22-25
@Nelisme Are you afraid they'll see him as their dad?
Nelisme · 22-25, F
@BlueVeins no, I’m afraid it will confuse them tho.
FatEight · M
Actually it might be a good thing to see you interact with another adult. This is how they build communication skills themselves... by watching you.
Just make sure if you decide to go further that you keep that part from there eyes. That might confuse them.
Nelisme · 22-25, F
@FatEight He’s actually helping me a good bit. I’m glad he comes over.
FatEight · M
@Nelisme Make no mistake, he is interested in seeing you naked. And that's okay if you are also interested. But like I said, keep that part from the kids view until you decide he is actually step daddy material.
Nelisme · 22-25, F
@FatEight it’s probably not best to discuss such matters in an open forum.
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Nelisme · 22-25, F
@quietwhispers101 yes, I prefer older men as a rule.
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Just keep it neighborly. I'm sure it's fine. You can't help it.
ohhhh well you might need to so you don't give him the wrong impression. @Nelisme
Nelisme · 22-25, F
Then talk to him @Nelisme
TexChik · F
The man wants a booty call. Does he not work?
Tres13 · 51-55, M
For some sugar?
Nelisme · 22-25, F
@Tres13 @Tres13 I guess you could say that. He’s not overtly sexual, but very flirty and hands on. He’s helped me cut the grass and do some other outdoor chores too.
Playdaddy69 · 46-50, M
They shouldn't remember anything

 
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