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I Had a Good Day

University - 10

Thursday & Friday - week 3

I bring Oksana her second cup of coffee not long after the first. She knows this is the signal to get up and join the day.

She moans a little, but I am growing accustomed to her moans. I take her by the hand, lead her to bathroom. I run shower and, when it is hot enough, gently propel her under it. I showered more than an hour ago. I am ready to dress.

Which I do while Oksana is in shower.

I do not think I have ever met someone so unadapted to mornings. It would be very annoying, if it were not so sweet. Still, I must be firm or we will never get anything done.

I make more coffee. I lay out some breakfast for Oksana. I tidy up apartment while I wait for her to be ready.

We have deliberately chosen Wednesdays for our midweek date nights, as Thursdays are the only mornings when neither of us has a lecture, tutorial or essay group scheduled. It takes a lot of the stress out of the awakening process, and affords us a little time together before we launch into the day.

Eventually, she is ready and we set off for campus. It is nice to stroll together through the midmorning city. The first rush gone. But there is still some bloom on the day. We divert via my favourite deli, to get some rolls for lunch. A treat. And coffees to take out. A necessity, in view of the standard of coffee substitute provided in the campus canteen.

We part on campus, with a promise to meet again Saturday night. I say, come early to apartment, I will get in something for us to eat. Oksana smiles, OK. She heads off to her lecture on business reputation management. I go to see my Journalism tutor.

The proposed field trip to Donbas is firming up. Departure will be a week today. We will have a meeting tomorrow, and a full military briefing Tuesday next week.

I eat my lunch with my tutor. Then a brief time in library before lectures in afternoon. Watching the political situation unfold in UK is fascinating. And now more scandal about what President Trump said to President Zelenskiy about delaying US aid.

After lectures, I spent about another hour in library. Then back to apartment. It is quiet evening, studying, making essay notes and some progress with essay.

I check in with friends on SW and fall sleep.

Friday is just another day. Up and out early to campus. Lectures and study time in library.

Significant event is meeting for Donbas field trip. Six of us are going - producer, camera, sound, presenter, editor/researcher, writer (me). Three girls, three guys. We leave Thursday lunchtime, drive east about 200km to military barracks. There we will change into military uniforms and equipment. Leave all personal comms - phones, tablets, laptops - which we cannot carry in war zone.

Army will provide heavy duty cameras, recording equipment for us to use. This is all specially adapted for use in war zone. We will then join military convoy to travel about another 600km to front. We will stop overnight at a military encampment and complete journey Friday morning. We will return to Kyiv after six of seven days, depending on army transport capacity.

On the way home, I call at sushi shop, buy a selection of items for tomorrow night. Then to deli, for a couple of fresh made pizzas. One with salami, one with red and yellow peppers, onions. I can easily heat these in my oven.

Back in apartment, I put food in refrigerator and settle in for evening. Some friends were going out for beer, but I am too tired to watch people getting drunk. I have a coffee and some salad. Apple.

Just before 20:00 I call Papa, Mama, to tell them about field trip. Mama is quite stoical, warns me to be careful. Papa's immediate reaction, do you want me to see if i can get you out of this? I don't laugh, but explain that i really want to do it. Then he is ok, suggests some stuff to take to front for soldiers there, bring them some happiness. It is good idea.

We exchange other news about home and university. The village is collecting money to buy new car for priest. Papa has confirmed booking for ski lodge outside Bukovel for ten days after Christmas. I have letter about flying club membership.

Then I settle down again to enjoy evening with my own company. More study, some leisure reading. Chat with friends on SW.

Go to bed thinking about tomorrow.
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An openly homosexual Ukrainian veteran of the war in the eastern part of the country says he was beaten up by five people as he was returning home late on September 28. The news of Vasyl Davydenko's beating emerged two days later when fellow gay veteran, Viktor Pylypenko – the first Donbas veteran to have come out – posted a message on his Facebook timeline, RFE/RL reported. Davydenko, 41, told local TSN television on September 30 he believed the assault was because of his sexual orientation. Read also Deputy head of Kyiv Administration attacked late on Tuesday – media As he was approaching the entrance to his building, one of the five men asked if his name was Vasyl. When Davydenko responded in the affirmative, another man said that he "gives intriguing interviews" to the media about his homosexuality and hit him in the genitals. Davydenko then curled up into a fetal position on the ground as the five struck his head and legs and ripped apart a medical corset he was wearing to support his wounded spine. A lawyer by profession, Davydenko first served in the Donbas volunteer battalion during the early stages of the war, which began in April 2014 when Russian-backed separatists began taking over government buildings, and police and Security Service stations. He saw combat in the easternmost region of Luhansk starting in July 2014 and served until the middle of 2015. Davydenko declared his homosexuality about 45 days ago as the second openly gay war veteran. He told TSN TV that his entire family had pro-Russian views and he didn't talk to them. Aside from one relative in the government-controlled part of Ukraine, Davydenko's mother lives in Russian-occupied Crimea and his remaining family members reside in Russia. Love took him to war because his partner, whom he met in February 2014, was already serving on the front, he said. Eventually, Davydenko caught up to his lover in the front-line city of Shchastya, which literally means, "happiness." "We were happy there," Davydenko said. His partner, Arsen, died in battle in the Luhansk region in December 2014. Davydenko said he didn't regret coming out and "other gays shouldn't be afraid of themselves in the first place." In the interview, he said that "nobody can break us because we're stronger."

Read more on UNIAN: https://www.unian.info/kiev/10704819-gay-veteran-of-donbas-war-attacked-in-kyiv-media.html