Sorry to break it to ya but none of your relationships will work good

People tend to see in others what they do themselves

Look, sharing your relationship turmoil with others won't work well because it will always lead to more problems as a result of other people's opinions. Adult couples must resolve their differences amicably, without involving other people. Some grownups are still confused by this. When my ex and I were having problems, we took some time to ourselves and then got together to have a calm conversation about it rather than running to others and talking negatively and one-sidedly about each other.

Eh I am my own ego. A two face