I Am Easy to Get Along With

Just seen my husband's (for now)- new girlfriend. I was going to smile, nod - maybe not so much of a hello but hey, why not? There is no ill feeling towards her, she may in time be introduced to my children and as an amicable person I would like her to see this and that I don't have a problem with her being with my ex.
Unfortunately though she didn't look up from her phone. I am reasonable and easy to get along with despite circumstances. I hope she realises this and that I'm not going to be the ex from hell - though I could be :)

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Pherick · 41-45, M

Was this a public meeting? Like she just ignored you? Thats kinda rude.

SugarRush · 31-35, F

She was at a bus stop. I'm unsure whether she saw me coming or not so can't say whether she was being rude or not.

Pherick · 41-45, M

@Autumn-Rayne: Oh OK, so that could be OK then, almost sounded like you got introduced and she just ignored you. Hope the divorce finishes up quickly!

SugarRush · 31-35, F

@Pherick: In honesty.. I can't wait. I refuse to move forward until then because of vows and I'm weird lol I'm not in love with him but still feel bound to him over a little piece of paper. Crazy.

Pherick · 41-45, M

@Autumn-Rayne: Ohhh I can understand that though, obviously he doesn't feel the same way, but I hope you get free soon!!!

SugarRush · 31-35, F

@Pherick:he's moving on. He's happy, kids will be happy when around him. He said he feels some guilt but i told him to proceed - she's been brought into his life for a reason, why give that chance up?

Pherick · 41-45, M

@Autumn-Rayne: Wow, you might be the best soon-to-be-ex-wife ever :) I don't think most woman would agree with you, but its awesome you feel that way.

SugarRush · 31-35, F

@Pherick: I won't lie, I am confused. I was kinda wondering where the "are you mad" replies were - is it normal to smile or even say hello to your exs new partner? I don't know why I have no bad feelings towards her, I think it's just because she seems a good person and in time if it got serious, she's a better role model / influence on our children than some other types of women.