I Dont Know Who I Am Anymore

After escaping a controlling marriage of over 20 years, I was 16 when it started, after leaving my controlling parents. I find myself 5 years past divorce, still lost, still lonely and still feel like I have no identity I don't know who I am supposed to be?
Another failed relationship behind me.. then another.. I am the good friend but is that enough?

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Tracos · 51-55, M

as horrible as it may sound... the key to finding yourself is not in a relationship, but in traveling a stretch of your path by yourself on your own feet...

Venice · 46-50, F

@Tracos I've always supported myself but maybe not emotionally. I think that's my weak point... Being alone is I find currently a struggle

Tracos · 51-55, M

@Venice it does take some serious time to get comfortable to being alone... company is addictive.... even bad or wrong company...