I am curious....

UPDATE: I think he got the hint .....He redeemed himself for Valentine's

While we just spent the evening at home, he DID dress the part.
I was pleasantly surprised as he could have easily just worn his 'comfy' clothes.

Would you be upset if you were going out on a date (with someone who you have been seeing for some time) to dinner and a comedy show and this person decides to wear sweats. Meanwhile, you have picked out a lovely outfit that fits the vibe for the evening. Would you be bothered by his/her lack of effort to meet your level of wardrobe choices?

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Pfuzylogic · M

If this was a first time and they knew your expectations… sure!

skmokisses · 46-50, F

@Pfuzylogic Perhaps that is where I dropped the ball ...... I didn't vocalize my expectation to get dressed to go 'out' on a date.

Pfuzylogic · M

@skmokisses A date has certain expectations and something besides sweats would be expected. Hopefully it can be a positive learning experience for both of you.