Jumbo - I personally do not geel that being physically attracted to women of a particular type ethnic or so-called race is "fetishizing" them. If you're physically attracted to certain physical features, looks etc., of a particular type and find them beautiful of handsome or wherever the case may be - what are you supposed to do, pretend like you're not? Act like you don't notice? Often physical attraction is the initial attraction. Doesn't mean you won't find more non-physical things attractive about a person once you meet and get to know them.
"Fetishized"? So one "makes a fetish" of a particular type, or look or features etc, of a person because they see them as physically attractive, pleasing, beautiful?
I don't think that's what you're doing by being physically attracted to Indian or any other specific ethnic, or so-called race, or type of women. But that's just me and my opinion.
I think these words get misused/abused often in our society these days.
Fetishize:
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/fetishize
Fetish:
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/fetish
Sorry Jimbo - this really isn't towards you personally or anyone on this thread. Nor am I saying that women are not sexualized. But I get a lot of this "fetish" crap because I like Asian and other ethnic and so-called races of women of color. I call bull s--t.
I apologize to all and will post this rant separately as a question/story/topic whatever. I'll probably delete this from this thread later, also.
