It's a difficult question that you're asking. For a reminder, the notion that women wouldn't love men as men love women would not only stir up controversy among the mediums witch aspire to hold a gender neutral and politically correct tone, but the fantasy of romance would be at stake. Little research has been done on the subject and in turn reached the surface.
Because of the biological deferences between the sexes there is possibility that we experience love differently, but wouldn't you say that in the current environment where males, contrary to females have a difficulty expressing their emotions, as well as having a readily available human being for psychological support, plus not having their feelings validated as worthy of compassion and understanding (the classic man-up turning destructive)?
I can only write so much here, PM me if you'd like to discuss this further.