I Am Curious

My impression is that you are dealing with a standard-issue, no options added male of our species. The part about sometimes being stupid was the clincher. I'm just surprised it is only sometimes, and that he figured out how to conceal his true colors.

You need to choose a model with some options that aren't standard equipment for a more satisfactory experience. You may have to shop around for a while, as the fully loaded complete package editions are quite rare.

Human...

My impression is he hides behind a mask, he isn't those things he pretends to be, and in fact, he has never changed at all, but that could just be what I am getting from the little you posted and I could be far off. There's so much more to people than they show us sometimes, and that's a fact. I would proceed with caution when around the person, and think there's a possibility the real him is still there hiding with a mask on.

We all wear masks Hami. We have different faces for different people...

Why are you angry?
Manners isn't that hard to acquire. Maybe he just changed but you seem convinced. I'm trying to be optimistic. I don't know.

@Quizling but sadly some wear masks all the time, to hide what they really are and few people change for the better. I lived too much to think otherwise. But then again, he could be perfectly normal we all have off days lol :D

@Autumnbreeze I guess I always have a suspicious outlook and am always cautious, perhaps as I said above to Quizling everyone has off days occasionally and can't live up their idea "personality" he could very well be perfectly normal. :)

Yes. All things come to she who waits. Patience is a virtue.

If it's 'not in his nature' he'll always find relationships difficult.
I suspect there will be many arguments and more if he is constantly fighting the desire for confrontation.

Maverick, It is very likely.I'd like to know when is necessary to bring him to counselling. As time passed, I get used to it and I don't see it as a problem.

This whole thread is confusing to me.
"Ideal personality"
It sounds strange.

Hami, it is a cautious answer.thanks
Alias, he sounds pretty normal to me.

Thanks, Maverick! I'd like to try that.

Well, for some of us, the masks are all that is left...

That gave me a headache

Only human.

Quiz 😬 Ty

RandomUniverse,I think all I need is to wait for sometime and observe to see his complete edition.

How does one pretend to be wise. I'm not sure.
Maybe he had a revelation 😁
It sounds like you know him pretty well.

An exam by a physician would not hurt anything, in the quest to find understanding and a solution.

lovelldo, imo, I evolve from my anger because I know it is not beneficial at all 😬

Picklebobble, he is in his self-trained nature most of the time like 90% of his life

Iovelldo, ideal is polite, wise and happy.

Sounds bipolar, maybe...