@V00doo thank you, sometimes I feel like I'm going nuts, it's so hard to be able to get her to see that it's too much for me.
It's like when clearly she can see I've got something on my mind she will just keep referring to it. Like she needs to address the elephant in the room.

@daydeeo I hope that one day I can find a way to filter much of the information out. She gets really upset if I say something like, " ok, so what happened" if she waffles about the background stuff.

@tenente thanks, I thought I was suffering from ADHD or something coz it really bothers me.