I Would Rather Be Alone Than Be With the Wrong Person I grew up not knowing what love is. I...

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I Would Rather Be Alone Than Be With the Wrong Person

I grew up not knowing what love is. I lived in a dysfunctional family. Never felt like I was good enough and the people I was supposed to depend on and lift me up broke me. Growing up I clinged to people because I desperately wanted to feel loved and...

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Chanel · 61-69, F

You are handling this the right way.

My mum never loved my dad and cos the 'old school' idea of sticking it out for the kids mum grew bitter and twisted.

I always said when I was your age and still do say that I don't think I could live with anybody ever unless I was 100% sure I really wanted to.

But I am happy living alone.

Chanelcoco · 51-55, F

Glad you are okay now. It is hard to find decent friends or sometimes people you are close to die.

But you are doing the right thing. Sounds like you are perceptive.

I get bad vibes about some people but also very good ones.

God bless you Love and hugs

lilacs · 41-45, F

I've been divorced for a few years now and enjoying it. I love the freedom.

midnightsun · 26-30, M

Wrong person doesn't exist.Incompatibility exists.

And, it's a huge difference between both.

Goldengirl22 · F

@midnightsun sure 30 years of incompatibilty...dont care for cliche sayings everything happens for a reason blah blah...the right person will come along. Whatever you say.

midnightsun · 26-30, M

@Goldengirl22 you misunderstood my point and took it too far.

Oh well.

I was actually agreeing with you

Sssslm · F

I stay away from people I don't like and people who don't look friendly. Not wasting time and effort on things and people not beneficial. It s definitely worthwhile to take good care of yourself without depending on other people.

FloridaGuy · 46-50, M

I seem to have more friends than I expected going through something similar. I hope you can preserve the best parts of yourself despite what you’re going through.

PhilDeep · 51-55, M

I can relate to this, though it's sad. I'm fed up of widespread selfishness too so I don't bother looking for deep connections now.

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passion · 56-60, M

Would like to chat with you!

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