Do you find it hard to ask for help?

Even when people have offered to be there for me I still find it hard to reach out. I worry that people were just being polite, or might have their own stuff going on, or maybe just aren’t in the mood and if I reach out they’d feel obliged or guilted into talking to me. My head can just be such a dark place and all of my thoughts work against me. I’d rather suffer on my own than feel like a burden to others

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SW-User

I do too, I feel guilty if I talk too much about my problems to someone, because I feel like I'm taking up too much of their time..🙇‍♀️

SW-User

@SW-User I feel the same way, or like I have to pretend to be happy because it feels like they’re sick of me not being so good

SW-User

@SW-User talk to me about anything, you would never be taking up too much of my time!! 🤗

SW-User

@SW-User I know the feeling.. I'm also really good at telling myself that nobody care, and self isolate.. Which is why it's good to share some stuff here, nobody is obligated to read or answer to anything, and I get some of it off my chest.. 🥺

SW-User

@SW-User Thank you, so can you! 🥺

SW-User

@SW-User that’s what I try and do, and then if people want to they text or call me to talk, if not at least I’ve got to vent a bit

SW-User

@SW-User You can always contact me💖

SW-User

@SW-User thank you, that’s really nice of you to say

SW-User

@SW-User I mean it 100%

TexChik · F

@SW-User Their time is all your friends have to give you, It is the easiest thing in the world to give and one of the most valuable things you could ever receive.

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@SW-User you know I care for you and love you. Never feel that way with me Cass 💖.