Honestly... whats the problem???

To them its a rejection and it is personal, and it's opening up all the scars of past rejections. Their reaction is nothing to do with your no, but everything to do with what that no has meant for them in the past and what they feel about it from their belief system.

They are so fragile they cannot take being refused.

Well, you do say "some" people - luckily there are plenty of others with more respect for others and indeed themselves.

The problem with them perhaps, is

These are the people that will never respect your boundaries that's why they push for a yes

Some people really struggle with respecting others boundaries.

I was just so dead set on getting into that sweet sweet ass 😞

Me too

No





😁

I had multiple experiences like these and I am getting tried of it and learning to stand up for myself. I don't know what it is about me or if people think I will let them run over me because of my face or that I am quite but I am not having it anymore.

I can't stand grown ass people who throw a fucking fit over nothing and pick on people.

Receiving an explicit "no" is better than someone beating around the bush or them hoping you'll figure it out from context. IMO.