this can be said of men as well. True devotion and character and especially unconditional love cannot be bought, negotiated, or manipulated. It does not come always at the best of times, often the truest of love comes when we are at our lowest form because truly anyone who would love us and accept us when things are at their worst surely deserves us at our best. It is like the old adage, when the house fell many ran, but what they did not understand was that I simply tore down the house to make room for a mansion.. I was only trying to see who cared enough to help me grab a hammer