I Want To Share A Few Things About Me
It's been a pretty wild ride this last year. For the first time in my life I am finally feeling like my life is going in the right direction. For years I have been miserable in my marriage, and it literally became too much to continue. We tried marriage counseling. It didn't work. Constant arguing and fighting. Disappoint after disappointment.
Finally we sat and talked with one another. A heart to heart conversation about our marriage. Yes after 13 years we finally hit a brick wall. We both knew it and both felt as if we were walking on egg shells. We both agreed to talked about ending our marriage at that moment I told her that I was not at the point of resentment, and that I truly believe that it indeed was a good time to end our marriage. So we separated into different part of our home at the time.
It was a very bittersweet moment, but we both knew it was the right time. I remember we both admitted to one another the stress built up from the arguments and being afraid to admit to myself that made bad mistakes along the way. It all vanished. Very quickly.
As things progressed with the sale of the house. We healed together as two human beings. The divorce process never was ugly. We both knew that we wanted to be respectful to one another from the moment we ended it. And we did. We settled everything on our own. No lawyers were needed. It took about a year and a half get to our court date to sign papers. But we did it. Respectfully.
See, divorce is always seen as a negative concept for many people. I remember seeing my sister go through hers when I was very young. It was an ugly one. I never understood why people had to just be so negative and hateful to the other person. However, I suppose some have good reason to be. I save a lot of stress, time, and money too.
I was very fortunate I suppose. Recently, I met someone who really has made me feel like the woman I want to be. Someone special. Someone who loves me for me, someone who makes me think for myself. Someone who makes me feel honoured to love her. She makes me happy. Sometimes the heart knows what it wants and needs..
Finally we sat and talked with one another. A heart to heart conversation about our marriage. Yes after 13 years we finally hit a brick wall. We both knew it and both felt as if we were walking on egg shells. We both agreed to talked about ending our marriage at that moment I told her that I was not at the point of resentment, and that I truly believe that it indeed was a good time to end our marriage. So we separated into different part of our home at the time.
It was a very bittersweet moment, but we both knew it was the right time. I remember we both admitted to one another the stress built up from the arguments and being afraid to admit to myself that made bad mistakes along the way. It all vanished. Very quickly.
As things progressed with the sale of the house. We healed together as two human beings. The divorce process never was ugly. We both knew that we wanted to be respectful to one another from the moment we ended it. And we did. We settled everything on our own. No lawyers were needed. It took about a year and a half get to our court date to sign papers. But we did it. Respectfully.
See, divorce is always seen as a negative concept for many people. I remember seeing my sister go through hers when I was very young. It was an ugly one. I never understood why people had to just be so negative and hateful to the other person. However, I suppose some have good reason to be. I save a lot of stress, time, and money too.
I was very fortunate I suppose. Recently, I met someone who really has made me feel like the woman I want to be. Someone special. Someone who loves me for me, someone who makes me think for myself. Someone who makes me feel honoured to love her. She makes me happy. Sometimes the heart knows what it wants and needs..
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