you are the only one who can truly answer that question. so, ask it to yourself.
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@User123455 if you are happy, then continue on with what you are doing. if you think you would be happier striving toward higher goals, then you should go that route.
User123455 · 26-30
@ReptilianFromPlanetCrush ok now can I get your opinion on this lol
@User123455 you really do want me to tell you that you are wasting your life LOL
Floki · M
Find a hobby
iwishuwerehere · 61-69, M
User123455 · 26-30
@iwishuwerehere wait what do you mean by that?
iwishuwerehere · 61-69, M
@User123455 Ok, you asked!
I think you need to make a life of your own & stop relying on your parents. You are long past being your parents responsibility. There’s much more to life then just trying to get by. Find some things interest you & get up & get moving.
Good things don’t just land in your lap. You have to go after what you want. If you want anything bad enough you can get it but it will require some effort on your part which definitely seems to lacking
I think you need to make a life of your own & stop relying on your parents. You are long past being your parents responsibility. There’s much more to life then just trying to get by. Find some things interest you & get up & get moving.
Good things don’t just land in your lap. You have to go after what you want. If you want anything bad enough you can get it but it will require some effort on your part which definitely seems to lacking
CactusJackManson · 51-55, M
If that makes you happy, keep doing it.
ValerieVee · New
User123455 · 26-30
@ValerieVee but I wanna hear your opinion
ValerieVee · New
@User123455 That was my opinion. I have no idea of what you're capable of.
Sapio · 51-55, M
Take a chance and step out of your established comfort zone.
TexChik · F
You are merely existing. What you are doing, though it is your life, is just enough to survive. You were built to do more than that. Something is not right (you should be wanting to do so much more) and perhaps its time to ask a Psychiatrist (brain chemistry doc) or a Psychologist their opinion and let them try to help you. You are missing out on so much wonder and beauty in the world. Perhaps a doctor can help you figure this out.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
There must be a reason why you live like this and only you know what this reason is. The opinions of the others don't matter, they don't live your life. It's up to you to predict if one day when it will be too late to change things you would look back and regret not making different choices while you still could or while it was significantly easier. Nobody can tell you if you are wasting your life because nobody knows what your real values in life are. Following the criteria that fit others and living by them despite that they don't fit your needs is a form of wasting your life too.
User123455 · 26-30
@CrazyMusicLover I just sometimes think I’m a loser because I still live with my parents at 31 almost 32 and I still work at the same job for 9 years and never having a bf lol
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@User123455 Plenty of people live with their parents in this economy. I know people who live in the same house with parents and their new family as well. If you get along well I don't see a problem. As I said, it doesn't matter what other people think but how it works for you and if you are happy in your situation or if you don't want it that way and are willing to change it.
PeachNbelle · 18-21, FNew
Slunds like a lot of Americans right now especially in small towns
GoFish · 41-45, F
are you enjoying your time or just going through the motions wanting more out of life?
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TheHammer · M
If you're asking that question you already know the answer
MyNameIsHurl · 46-50, F
User123455 · 26-30
@MyNameIsHurl but I wanna hear your opinion
MyNameIsHurl · 46-50, F
@User123455 I mean, I work and come home and hang out with my kids
SuperSportChevy · 26-30, MNew
Just find a wealthy man & baby trap him.
In all seriousness, only you can say whether you're happy with the trajectory of your life. If you have the means to change it, why not. Why not make your time on this Earth more comfortable.
In all seriousness, only you can say whether you're happy with the trajectory of your life. If you have the means to change it, why not. Why not make your time on this Earth more comfortable.
User123455 · 26-30
@SuperSportChevy so what is your opinion do u think I’m doing nothing with my life then?
You ask this stuff a lot... Always the same thing. You get lots of opinions and great advice but don't seem to put any of it to good use. So my question is, why do you want to know our opinions so badly if you're just going to keep things as they are or is this some sort of social experiment, troll or kink? Yes I'm genuinely asking.
@TheHammer I think you might be spot on about that.
Neuman · M
it sounds like you're wasting it a bit, but i think everyone wastes their life to a large degree.
lovingdead · 36-40, M
are you happy? and why ask strangers? doing anything or not with your life there are those who would judge you harsher if you didn't watch and/or have an opinion on (insert some trending movie or show)
TheHammer · M
lovingdead · 36-40, M
@TheHammer I think she has not answered the question despite many people asking, I think we know absolutely nothing about her views on her life (because when other people have asked in the comments she has said ...(roughly)....."I'm curious at to what you think"
User123455 · 26-30
@Convivial why u say that
