Tell her you are going anyway and when you get home safe and sound , tell her to stop watching that stuff and not everyone is a murderer, rapist or kidnapper, I would start off with what’s he going to get for ransom if he kidnapped you, unless your mom is filthy rich he won’t get anything and I highly doubt he’s selling a 32 year old woman, they want kids they can groom and mold to do what they desire , like Epstein did

I am sorry for your situation

Really none of her business if u two go out or not.

I feel for you. I suffer from extreme loneliness and boredom too. There is always danger in meeting someone new but that's why a public place is recommended.

I wish you less loneliness

Hope you’re feeling better, that everything works out and that you’ve gotten some helpful replies here as this is the third time you’ve asked about this.

You’re not unreasonable at all your mum’s autistic