The real reason why these interactions while walking next to the women felt too special and how its similar to one of my campus moment. Can you relate
So in my previous post I shared how yesterday I had 2 amazing interactions with women from Australia and Germany separately in Lavelle Road of our city Bangalore in India which is an upscale cosmopolitan area where the UB City luxury mall is. So I had a long interaction first with the Australian woman who is a tourist while walking next to each other and then later the German woman who is an expat in our city for work. On Sunday too I had a similar walking next to each other interaction with a British woman who is a tourist in Church Street area. It felt special honestly even though it should be basic thing for a 25 year old male. But yeah it felt so good. Thats because I didn't have too many such experiences of women walking next to me. Yes I was heavily bullied in school which lead me to withdraw and avoid talking to girls for years and only overcome that shyness at 23. So this thing is still relatively new to me even at 25. Obviously the interactions were normal and I was composed but internally it felt so special to walk next to such a beautiful woman and talk. In my MBA too I rarely had these moments as the shyness was still there a bit in 1st year except with this female friend Soniya who tried to talk to me and we even went out during our Bengali festival Durga Puja.
But I feel these interactions while walking next to them also reminds me of that interaction with this woman Itisha. Yeah it happened in August 2024 when my 3rd semester of MBA just freshly started and I finally broke out of the shyness and she was also walking on the sidewalks of Electronic city of our city and walking to University and I was too so I confidently initiated and we talked while walking next to each other. She was a bubbly North Indian woman from the city Lucknow so yeah it was more Indian in conversation and not like these international interactions but it felt so great walking next to her and talking like that while walking to campus. It felt special man. I wasn't able to believe I finally did it after years of shyness and low self-esteem. Later on while going home too we again bumped into each other and she even shared her umbrella as it was raining and I forgot it. Btw yeah I know I shouldn't fully compare a campus connection like this to these international interactions which are often more one-time moments but the only meaningful and best interaction with Itisha was that day only and after that we didn't have much of these interactions again and it fully faded and never turned into a connection at all so I would still say its similar to the more one-time interactions. But yeah yesterday I got those "Itisha" vibes while talking to the German and Australian women simply because how similar they were in nature and the women being bubbly and laughing and me wishing it was even longer just like it did when talking to Itisha so thats why these interactions felt even more memorable than my interactions in Cafes when we are seated. What do you feel?
But I feel these interactions while walking next to them also reminds me of that interaction with this woman Itisha. Yeah it happened in August 2024 when my 3rd semester of MBA just freshly started and I finally broke out of the shyness and she was also walking on the sidewalks of Electronic city of our city and walking to University and I was too so I confidently initiated and we talked while walking next to each other. She was a bubbly North Indian woman from the city Lucknow so yeah it was more Indian in conversation and not like these international interactions but it felt so great walking next to her and talking like that while walking to campus. It felt special man. I wasn't able to believe I finally did it after years of shyness and low self-esteem. Later on while going home too we again bumped into each other and she even shared her umbrella as it was raining and I forgot it. Btw yeah I know I shouldn't fully compare a campus connection like this to these international interactions which are often more one-time moments but the only meaningful and best interaction with Itisha was that day only and after that we didn't have much of these interactions again and it fully faded and never turned into a connection at all so I would still say its similar to the more one-time interactions. But yeah yesterday I got those "Itisha" vibes while talking to the German and Australian women simply because how similar they were in nature and the women being bubbly and laughing and me wishing it was even longer just like it did when talking to Itisha so thats why these interactions felt even more memorable than my interactions in Cafes when we are seated. What do you feel?
22-25, M