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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
They are a fortress.
Boundaries to me or not negotiable
I see that as being sincere ,truthful, and upfront about what I expect and what I won't tolerate.
It means yes I'll talk to strangers until they give me a reason not to .
I'll explain what I don't like ,but if somebody thinks it's cute to cross those boundaries then I'm not going to have anything to do with them, because people don't stop once they step the toe over one boundary and you let it down they keep hammering on all the others until you wondered how that ever happened.
Boundaries to me or not negotiable
I see that as being sincere ,truthful, and upfront about what I expect and what I won't tolerate.
It means yes I'll talk to strangers until they give me a reason not to .
I'll explain what I don't like ,but if somebody thinks it's cute to cross those boundaries then I'm not going to have anything to do with them, because people don't stop once they step the toe over one boundary and you let it down they keep hammering on all the others until you wondered how that ever happened.
@Justmeraeagain exactly