I actually reached this point

Never had a problem getting some. But after a while that sort of thing becomes messy, meaningless and even gross. People want to call me an incel for hating the thought of relationships, but they don't know where I'm coming from. Once I learned to be happy by myself the need for it dissipated. All that sort of thing does is cause problems. All for what? Brief temporary flesh? 🤮 There are so many little things in life to enjoy. Good music. Even making music! Crafts, hobbies, sunshine and critters, nature and good food. Much more enjoyable without drawback. Better for the soul. I look at it this way. Put it away and change focus. Our being become what we feed it.