I know all I do is complain, but I have no one else to listen...

Throughout my life I've been told I'm selfish and too wrapped up in myself, which I don't think is true at all. However, if it is, is it any wonder when I've had to care for myself since a young age? I've had family around me, but they've been too preoccupied with more important things. Everything I know I have had to learn for myself. I might put myself first in some situations, but that doesn't mean I don't care about others. I think I care too much if anything.