Let me tell you, as someone who's got a few more years under his belt, life doesn't follow a strict timeline or checklist—it’s more like a meandering river, and everyone’s path is unique. Being 31 with certain life experiences you haven't had yet doesn't define you, and it certainly doesn't diminish your worth or potential for happiness.
Your dedication to work and the effort you put into maintaining connections, even if it’s just a shopping trip with your coworker, shows you’re a responsible and thoughtful person. You’re living your life in your own way, and that’s perfectly okay. The opportunities and experiences you're looking for may come at their own pace, sometimes when you least expect it.
The important thing is to focus on what brings you joy and fulfillment, whether that’s trying new hobbies, meeting new people, or simply embracing who you are today. Remember, there’s no expiration date on new beginnings, and life has a way of surprising us.
-Marcus