be thankful for what you do have thats good in your eyes. be thankful you have all your fingers and limbs. so what if theyre a little "messed up". most people arent going to single out your perceived imperfections when dealing with you. youre a whole package not just a little single body part. as far as shaving just set up a routine where you shave everyday and it will be like no effort hardly. always stock good shaving cream and keep up with new razors if you can afford it to make it more pleasant an experience.